Arrine is perfect, lovely, adorable, smart…blah blah blah. But Arrine can be a challenge – she has a short temper and wants to do things on her own and wants to do things her own way. Now where does she get that from…?
And although all my posts about Arrine so far have been heartwarming and sweet, I felt it was about time to become The Honest Parent.
Today was rough picking up Arrine from daycare. First I found her swinging back and forth, dangerously, from the monkey bars. She is able to climb up onto the wooden ledge, then on tippy toes, reach reach reach until her pudgy fingers wrap around the bar. Then she lets go of her feet against the ledge and just hangs. And swings. Until she falls down into the sand after her little hands slowly slip off as she looses her grip. And she thinks it’s hilarious. And so much fun that she didn’t want to go home. Cries. Then while walking to the car she ran away from me – something she likes to do and thinks is hilarious. I scolded her. Cries. She wanted to do up her own car seat safety belt and close the car door. I couldn’t let her do that. Cries.
Cries all the way home. Literally. Cries.
And while I was keeping my head straight, eyes on the road, not giving into the cries, I longed for a button I could push, that would raise a dark glass window between the front and back seat, that was sound proof too. Just like what a limousine driver has. And I would have raised that glass, blocked out the crying, turned on the radio and enjoyed my drive home.
And I know that amm would have had these moments too. Wishing she could ‘turn me off’. But still loving me in that moment. Or hours…
This reminded me of a comedy sketch I was once shown of Louis C.K. and his thoughts on parenting. He spoke of the most appreciated moments a parent has in their day: they are the seconds between shutting the car door once your kids are loaded inside, and walking around the car until you open the driver’s side door to get into the car with them.
I wonder how many times amm appreciated those moments outside the car while I was inside. 🙂